Tis true, tis true. That is how it is with everyone.
Well, how much do you value your secret identity? And would you prefer to chat and sooner or later be found out, or never chat again (or just very rarely) and remain a mystery.
To chat, or not to chat.
That is the question.
Although I believe you have a double account, yes? So you wouldn't have to give up chat, just as @Milady_Despark.