Be careful, Eerie. Forgiveness can take a long time and be slow in coming, even for the best of us, so have some patience for our more emotionally inclined friends. They need some time to sort themselves out. People do not always overcome their sin nature overnight.
My original post didn't specify a time differential. Expecting people to overcome something as severe as emotional pain took me years, and expecting it to go faster is a thoughtless and unreasonable expectation. What I want is them to stop attacking the people who aren't going through that sort of pain, and start the slow, ugly process of facing the pain down and applying Scripture to it in order to heal.
It is coming. I'm pretty sure the people I'm addressing understand what I'm saying, they just REALLY don't like it. It's a hard spiritual truth to accept - in fact, probably one of the hardest.
Eerie is likely referring to 2 groups of people - one side that is interested in debating, and the other side wants to shut down all debates. The debaters have been offering apologies. The other side hasn't responded.