This is so frustrating to me. It's like I can put myself into her shoes and understand her needs and desires. I started believing in the Gospel before I fell into sexual sins, and I have had thoughts of maybe I could live a Christian life with a gay identity. The problem though, is that there are lies, emptiness, and downright perverted aspects of being gay.
Gay people are happier being true to themselves when they come out. False. There are plenty of broken relationships in the gay community, even in marriages.
God is a God of love and will accept you for who you are. This is true, but it fatally ignores God's HOLY character. God is loving, ONLY because He is Holy and Perfect. So, He must turn us away from our sinful behavior to become more like Him. He doesn't just accept us, He will shape us into the best verstions of ourselves, and that is without an identity (or idol) in something fleeting as attractions to the same sex.
I could go on, but y'all get the point.
I have a whole group of friends of Christians irl, but it would be strange to talk about this in that group chat. Thank you for this space where I can talk about this conflicting issue.