@Mr_F3, if you come back, I think you need to hear what I have to say to you. I hope that this has been covered already, but if it hasn't, I think it should be said.
Even if you don't think you hurt someone's feelings, the fact is that you did. You still have to acknowledge that their feelings were hurt by what you said or did to them.
Creel Lenslook is one of my best friends, and it hurts me greatly to see her hurting. A great amount of people are being hurt by what you are saying, too. That is a fact. Even if you think you're just stating the facts, those facts would better be left un-stated.