@Miss_E3, in the same passage you are quoting as to why men should not have long hair it also says that women should cover their heads. You yourself claimed to struggle with this passage. Until you come to terms with whether wearing head coverings is necessary for women you have no authority to judge men with long hair.
I believe some people have already brought up the cultural context. In both the case of men and women Paul was referring to the gender distinctions of ancient Corinth, how men and women should portray themselves as natural created beings of God. There may be a cultural difference between the U.S. and your country, or maybe between the countryside and the city, but where I'm from long hair on a man does not mean he is LGBTQ, and short hair doesn't necessarily mean a women is either. Paul is warning about culturally crossing the line, and men and women can grow their hair to many different lengths and still maintain an obvious identity as a man or woman.
Defending facts as true is fine. Stating your opinion is fine, but defending your opinion as the superior opinion is not if you are doing it with the intent of attacking others and persuading them. (That goes for you too, @Mr_A8.) Lashing out at someone else's opinion is wrong. Gently addressing their faulty opinion with facts alone is fine. Attacking their opinion because your opinion, not the facts, are different is not okay. Opinions can be debated, but they should be done so without the expectation of persuasion. Tact is also important. Think of yourself as a teacher, not a soldier. Educate the other party, don't attack them like a drill sergeant. Attacking someone emotionally will cause them to close up, educating someone with objective truth will cause them to examine your opinion unbiasedly.
@Miss_E3, everyone is racist. You yourself attacked the "American" nationality/race. We all love ourselves more than others. True tolerance on this earth is a lie of the Left. We shouldn't be racist, but it does happen. That does not excuse violence on a racial basis though.
@Mr_A8, Miss_E3 can like who she wants as long as they are male.
@Miss_E3, honestly, we don't care who you like and since you aren't married yet describing your future husband is pointless since we can't predict the future. Sometimes we need to surrender to God and let go of the future.
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