Three people have told you that your comment about the meme being a joke and that the world insulting men didn’t need to be said and was just unnecessarily prolonging the conversation (and the agony). Perhaps you should listen to them instead of continuing to argue about your right to not listen to them.
Yes, on this forum with are allowed to be total sinful human beings, disregard each other’s emotions, cause each other agony, and be jerks. That doesn’t mean that we should.
Some jokes are in bad taste, and since Beck apologized to Lil, he didn’t need to be defended. If (and I’m not saying Lil is going through this) someone is attractive to men and keeps going through failed relationships where nasty guys don’t treat her well and then proceed to blame her for the break ups even though they are responsible, and that is indeed her life, would you send her the joke that Beck just posted? Can you not see how that would seem to reinforce what her abusive boyfriends have been telling her and be taken the wrong way?
And the reason why I’m writing this is because I want you to stop doing this in the future - I want a change in behavior. I don’t want this to come back, because it hurts. It took me 30 minutes of listening to a song on loop to recover my thinking before writing my last post, and I don’t want to have to do that again.
If you don’t want to be hit with a baseball bat, hit the other guy first and knock him out so he can’t hit you anymore. That’s the logic. And when someone is hitting you with a baseball bat over and over again, you just want the person to stop hitting you. Listen to what people are saying, because posting without listening hurts them like getting hit by a baseball bat. Got it?
