Yes, we all were. Pating on her shoulder then stopping after a while. For me, I am enjoying getting older. New things to do, more things to see, adventures becoming more accessible (and loosing some too) being with a great family, getting to know a beautiful woman in real life, and communicating with people here that in time became my friends for a long time. though I never planned on making friends here, glad I did. I know I was not here more then being here, but glad the time we (all people who are my friends) put into making it happen. I hope for the best for you all.
Take care and take risk, and hope you all make a life worth living.