I have my reasons . . . I've found it has ugly consequences to obsess over something (or someone) so much. sighs It grows and grows until it takes over your soul. And then the Lord breaks you of it, and you spend the next several months regaining your footing and realizing how far you've fallen. It's hard to recognize when it begins to happen, but by the time most people see it it's far too late.
I try my best to keep my thoughts on Christ instead of things of this world. I don't want to burn that horribly again.